When you are hit with the blow of infidelity the emotional pain can hurt so much that it can also hurt physically. When you are filled with this much pain you start to wonder how to stop the pain and some of us start to wonder how can we exact the same pain to those that hurt us. That is the reason why some people participate in affairs and one night stands of their own. The problem with engaging in unfaithful behavior just to get revenge is that you will only make things more confusing, difficult, and create more problems. You will continue to feel heartache along with other unpleasant emotions. When you are betrayed you must remember that it is your mate’s wrongdoing and not your fault. Do not allow the incident to change who you are and compromise your morals. Lowering yourself to their standards will not erase the incident and neither will it erase the pain, shame, or any other emotions you may develop due to being cheated on. Instead of committing your own scandalous act of infidelity find more productive ways to heal. Yes, you want those that hurt you to hurt as well; nevertheless, you must let it go and give it to God. Once you are aware of your partner’s infidelity it is up to you to figure out what to do next. Work through your pain, search your soul, and do the right thing because two wrongs don’t make a right.