You Have To Be Right For Mr. Right

As a counselor and a person dedicated to helping women I have heard so many stories of the hardships of finding a good man.  Although I have found my Mr. Right I sympathize with my sisters because everyone deserves to spend life with their soul mate.  Even though I may sympathize with women I do not believe that every time a relationship fails that it is the fault of men.  Finding the perfect man doesn’t guarantee happily ever after.  First of all, a man doesn’t have to be perfect he just need to be perfect for you.  Secondly, if you don’t have your life together you can not expect a man to come along and make everything better. In order for you to have a good life with a good man you must have your game tight. You can not expect a man to be at his best to want to settle down with someone who isn’t up to par. You should be in the right place mentally, professionally, financially, and personally. If you haven’t reached those goals you should be at least working towards them. By doing so, when your Mr. Right does come along the process will go smoothly and everything will fall into place. There are many women that miss out on good guys or run them off because their life is in such shambles when he comes along. As women, we are always talking about our needs, desires, and expectations from men while many of us don’t give much thought to what men need, desire, and expect from us. That is most likely because of the myth that all men need, desire, and expect is sex. Believing that will definitely leave you lonely. If you have certain expectations of what you want your Mr. Right to be make sure you are capable of being Mrs. Right.

Finding Mr. Right continued

This week we are continuing on with the hot topic “Finding Mr. Right”.  This is an important topic because too many women are settling for Mr. Wrong and Mr. Right now.  Personally, I hate to see beautiful, intelligent, and interesting women waste important years of their lives on men that are not good for them.  It is sad that some women just give up on their search because of a few bad experiences.  Although it may be difficult, everyone owes it to themselves to do whatever it takes to find their soul mate.  Hey Soul Sistas hopes that the information we provide will help make the journey easier for all women.  If you have any information that may be helpful or if you have any questions please feel free to contact us through Facebook,, and our Ning network.  Thank You.

Hot Topic of the Week-Finding Mr. Right

As we continue with our “Surviving the Heat ” series we move on to another hot topic.  The hot topic of the week is finding Mr. Right.  During the summer many women are looking for the one, dating, or starting up a new relationship.  As many sistas know, it can be very difficult to find a suitable mate.  For that reason many women are settling for less and end up unhappy.  Through articles, collected information, forums, and polls Hey Soul Sistas will assist women in trying to find that special one.  If you have any suggestions or questions please feel free to contact us through Facebook, our email, and at our Ning account.
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Hot Topic of the Week- Toxic Relationships

As we continue with our “Surviving the Heat” topic for June/July this week we will focus on toxic relationships.  We chose to focus on toxic relationships as the hot topic of the week because there are many women in relationships that are not healthy for them.  The problem is that many women are unaware of the fact that they are in a toxic relationship and others do not know or do not have the strength to get out of such relationships.  Toxic relationships are not just romantic relationships; they can also be relationships that one may have with family, friends, and colleagues.  Hey Soul Sistas will provide articles that will help sistas understand and deal with all toxic relationships.  With the assistance of our sistas we will also feature discussions, forums, and polls that may also help shed some light and understanding of toxic relationships.  If you have any information on this topic that you would like to share or have any questions or comments please feel free to contact us through our Facebook page or email us at  We would also like to announce the start of the Hey Soul Sista networking page at Ning. We invite you to visit and join.  The network site will allow us to better communicate with another and ultimately bring us closer together.   Thank You
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