Spring Clean Your Life – Get Rid of Unnecessary People pt. 2

The Type Of People You Need To Get Rid Of

When evaluating the people in your life it is good to do so individually; nonetheless, it is important to be aware of the types of people that can cause harm to your life. Below are a few examples of the kind of people you need to rid of yourself of if you want to have a peaceful life.

1. Users
People that only want to be acquainted with you for the benefits it can bring are not healthy for you at all. They will emotionally, physically, mentally, and financially drain you without giving anything in return.
2. Troublemakers
Anyone that seems to always be in some type of trouble or drama is someone you need to stay away from. If you are close to people like that you will eventually get caught up in their drama.
3. Gossipers
I’m not going to mislead you, everyone enjoys a good piece of gossip once in awhile; however, you must beware of those who are always bringing you news and/or rumors about others. Most of the time these type of people are not selective when it comes to the people they spread gossip about. Associating with such a person can result in drama and even violence.
4. Manipulators
One should stay away from people that play mind games. These kind of people are dangerous and can not be trusted. They will do whatever it takes to get what they want and they don’t care who they hurt in the process. Stay clear of people that present such a character.
5. Liars
Anyone who purposely and/or continuously to hide tbe truth from you is not good for you at all. Stay away from people like this because you will get hurt.

Spring Clean Your Life – Get Rid of Unnecessary People

Get Rid of Unnecessary People

When you are spring cleaning your life there are a few important things you must do to complete the process. One of the most important parts of this process is getting rid of unnecessary people. When you are cleaning your home for the spring the first thing you do is get rid of all the objects that serves no purpose. When it comes to getting your life in order you must do that same thing with people. The people you allow in your life should enrich and enhance your life in some way. If you find that there are certain people in your life that are constantly bringing drama, strife, confusion, and other sorts of negativity into your mix then you have to let them go. Letting go will be difficult because of the bond you may share with the person but you must do what is best for your life. Surrounding yourself with the wrong people can cause several problems in your life. You owe it to yourself and the people in your life that need you to protect yourself from unnecessary drama. The best way to do that is to eliminate the trouble makers from your life. Free yourself from those that are not good for you and you will see your life change for the better.

SISTA SPOTLIGHT – Jennifer Hudson

Nickname: J-Hud
Profession: singer / actress
Released Albums: Jennifer Hudson, I Remember Me
Movies: Dreamgirls, Sex In The City, The Secret Life of Bees, Starring in the upcoming Winnie Mandela film
Spokesperson for Weight Watchers

Jennifer Hudson was first introduced to us through season 3 of American Idol. Although Jennifer did not win the title of American Idol she was determined to show the world her talents. The next time the world heard about Ms. Hudson she was casted as Effie White in the film adaptation of Dreamgirls. Although she would be starring alongside Jamie Foxx, Eddie Murphy, and r&b superstar Beyonce, everyone was buzzing about Jennifer and her big voice. When the film hit theaters everyone saw what the buzzing was all about. The movie was a hit and Jennifer was an overnight sensation. All her hard work paid off during awards season and she was nominated for several awards including a Golden Globe and an Oscar. As everyone predicted, Jennifer Hudson won both prestigious awards and several others. In 2008, Hudson released her debut album, which earned her a grammy. After being voted off A.I. Hudson did not give up; she worked diligently to make her star rise. Her personal life was soaring as well. Jennifer began dating former reality, David Otunga, and by September 2008 he proposed to her. It seemed to be no stopping the newly crowned diva. Then one day tragedy struck and everything changed. Jennifer’s mother, brother, and young nephew was murdered and her sister’s ex was suspected of the crime. Jennifer’s fans and friends mourned with her as everyone tried to understand how could something so terrible happened to such a wonderful person. Due to the loss of her family members and the media frenzy that followed Jennifer took some time off to deal with her heartache. 2009 was a good year for Hudson. She made her first public appearance that year at the Super Bowl where she sang The Star Spangled Banner and later that year she gave birth to her first child, David Otunga Jr. Recently Jennifer became a spokesperson for Weight Watchers and was soon sporting a new slimmer body after losing 80 pounds. With the release of her new album, I Remember Me, Jennifer has become a perfect example of getting your life in order. Although her choice to take a break was respected, many people wondered if the star would be able to come back from this. Jennifer’s journey back on top was most likely difficult but she did it. Now she is better than ever. Jennifer gives us faith to believe that we can recover anything.