The one thing I don't understand about sex is why it is such a taboo subject. Sex is a natural act and we all have physical desires and needs. As women, we have had to bare a heavier burden when it comes to sex. As young women we are told to stay pure until we get married and then we get married we are expected to be a super freak. How can that be achieved without any practice or experience. We also get blamed when the sex in a relationship goes down hill. We have been receiving mixed messages when it comes to sex since the start of time. It is time that we take control and start sending messages of our own. Take control of your sex life and own your sexiness. Love who you want to love and love them the way you want to. Just remember to be smart about your love and sexual decisions.